In order to have an effective communication in our daily lives, the only thing that we are focusing is not only the way we talk, or the way we communicate. It all starts from ourselves, we must understand our feelings and needs first in order to understand other person's needs and wants. So an effective communication can be seen as a tennis rally, we do not focus on who gets the point, but the quality of the rally is "the point".
If we think that we clarified ourselves, it's not just because we open ourselves, the help of the other person is important too. What other person or other people are doing is listening. So it's now time for you to listen effectively, for the sake of an effective and healthy communication.
We need to focus to the words and the eyes of the other person when we are listening and leave no distractions. Using body language and paraphrasing the opposition will ease the job for a desired communication. Being patient and absorbing what other person is telling to you is the key.
One of the most important thing again is the empathy, where you put yourself to other people's shoes, trying to get a glance to their perception and understand what they are really talking about, basically understand their feelings and needs. Empathy is not justifying but its understanding one another.
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